I first met Sam playing the party game Mafia in Madison, WI. Mafia involves a lot of lying, yelling, and unfounded accusations. It’s great. Sam was leading the game that night, which I learned was preferable to him playing since he is very persuasive and hard to kill. At some point, someone mentioned Sam’s girlfriend, who lived a few hours away.

- Sam’s girlfriend is gooorgeous. And hilarious, of course.

- Sam and his girlfriend are unbelievably cute together. You wouldn’t believe it – he is a complete sweetheart around her.

Sweetheart? Really? It’s not that Sam is not sweet. It’s just, sweetheart is not exactly his defining characteristic. Consistently funny? For sure. Unbelievably smart? Check. Fast talker? Extremely. Sweetheart…?

Sam’s girlfriend soon became his fiance, and when she was visiting one weekend, I offered to take their engagement pictures. The rumors were true. Leah is gooorgeous. Hilarious. Unbelievably smart. And with her, Sam becomes a total sweetheart. A sweetheart who cracks a lot of jokes.

This weekend, on a perfect San Diego Saturday, Sam and Leah married each other. Their wedding was everything they are. Playful. Smart. Incredibly beautiful.

Congratulations!

]]> https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/sam-and-leah-married/feed/ 1 A Nerd In Love Sam Love Veil First Look Blue Eyes Kiss Here Comes Entrance Scene Sand Cry Smile Rings First Kiss Recess Snack Sister Toast Mom Toast Laugh Cake Dance Smile Dance Funny Dance Sweet Party Palms Faces Twirl Typical Tree Farewell https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/04/13/kate-eric-married/ https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/04/13/kate-eric-married/#comments Tue, 13 Apr 2010 16:47:25 +0000 Morgan http://morganroseblog.com/?p=2134 ]]> For most people, it is pretty unlikely that your job will suddenly send you to live in a foreign country. Your boss will probably not call you and say, “Time to pack! You’re moving to Japan.” In the military, this is always a distinct possibility. Kate and Eric were engaged when Eric received a surprise assignment to Turkey. For the paperwork to process in time, they had to hold their wedding immediately. In the few weeks they had to plan, these two pulled off a valiant and touching wedding. And it was perfect.

This is Kate. She is a trooper and can laugh her way through any situation. Like dating Eric while living in Thailand for two years. Or moving around the world to be with him. After all, living in the same country sure does make date night easier. Or, after situating herself here, finding out that Eric is being transferred to Turkey and their wedding needs to happen pronto. Kate can handle anything.

Kate and Eric committed themselves to each other on a high balcony perched over the Pacific Ocean at the Hyatt Highlands Inn in Carmel.

Kate, you are gorgeous.

Kate and Eric, you are strong as individuals and unstoppable together. It is a privilege to know you.

I wish you both the best of luck in preparing for Turkey and can’t wait for your follow-up session!

That is all. Have a nice day.

“Hmwatfw?” I mumbled, rolling over and trying desperately to grab the shoestrings of my swiftly-fleeting dream as 6’2″ of barely-contained enthusiasm landed on the bed next to me.

“Everything.” L said, kissing my hair distractedly and tugging at the pillow I was clutching with both hands to my face. I peeked over the top, relinquishing all hope of finishing my dream and concentrating on focusing. My eyes. And my brain. Focus. Fooocus. Processing such excitement at 6 AM takes a minute.

“Solar cells! A team at Cal Tech just released a solar cell design that will cost about 50x less to produce the silicon! THAT IS HUGE! And they convert 85% of light into electricity. ALSO HUGE !!! It’s just. It’s such an increase in efficiency over old designs. Oh, and HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, SWEETIE!”

L pushed the pillow down to give me a real kiss before collapsing onto the bed beside me. He leaned over and pressed his forehead to my temple. “Plus, they’re flexible arrays,” he murmured into my ear, “so they can be manufactured really cheaply and used in all kinds of different applications.”

Let me pause. You have to understand. News like this, for nerds like us, is pure beauty. The possibilities are staggering. The hope delicious. We thrill to this kind of thing. This is our song. Even at 6 o’clock in the morning. Especially at 6 o’clock in the morning.

Two years ago, Luke and I met in college at TOM (Theory of Mind). TOM was a discussion group for biology, psychology, and philosophy majors to get together and kick around cool research. Translation: nerd club. We talked about stuff like when Duke neuroscientists trained monkeys to control a joystick with their brains. You know, sexy stuff. WISH YOU COULD HAVE BEEN THERE?! I know. I know you do.

Now L & I’ve been married for 6 months. And in case you were wondering what happens when two nerds get hitched, I thought I would clue you in. This is what it’s like! Admittedly, L is an incredibly kind, unbelievably brilliant and sizzling hot nerd. If that even fits in the nerd category. More like Wonder Super Man. I, on the other hand, am more of your standard issue nerd. Socially awkward, laughs too loudly and often, and has big glasses. There you go. Someone has to balance Wonder Super Man out. And I am happy to step up to the plate. Oh yes. Yes I am.

L, you are the handsomest man I’ve ever ever ever seen. Dang. Just. DANG.

You make me smile from the toes up.

Plus you don’t even laugh when I walk into the closed sliding screen door. Twice. In one day. At least, not very loudly. Just a muffled chuckle behind your hand while you’re dodging the pillow I lobbed at you. These things aren’t called throw pillows for nothing, buster.

Thank you for cracking me up every day. For demanding that I marry you. For being an optimist in the deepest, fullest sense of the word. For encouraging my dreams. Thank you for your stability. Thank you for your surprises. For being my sunshine in the morning. Or my photovoltaic cell. As the case may be. Thank you for being the greatest future dad imaginable. I can’t believe we probably get to make our own passel of rascals together someday! Or if not that, then hopefully we can pass a sanity test well enough to adopt a passel of rascals. I’ll be banking pretty heavily on you for that one, darlin’. Thank you for being the angel who entered my life when I least expected you. You are my heart. My one true love. You change everything.

PS. I have a major crush on you.

Love, M.

]]> https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/03/01/6-months/feed/ 3 A Nerd In Love Rawr. Faint. Unintended Smirk My heart. Mwah https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/02/22/family-of-four/ https://flashlightphotography.wordpress.com/2010/02/22/family-of-four/#comments Mon, 22 Feb 2010 22:10:56 +0000 Morgan http://morganroseblog.com/?p=2017 ]]> This lovely family contacted me for some family portraits in celebration of their new bundle of joy.

Check these gorgeous blues!

Rough-housing. Classic.

Such a sweet baby! Don’t you just want to squeeze those cheeks?!

I love love LOVE this picture ! What a special moment between father & son.

Thank you for a lovely afternoon, Perry family! It was so wonderful getting to know you guys.

There are moments in life when time does actually stand still.

Zoe & Anthony’s two boys are such cutie pies!

It takes A LOT of trickery to convince small children that they want to stand still for a photograph. Bribing with candy is a good start.

Ben figured out that he could see the picture on my camera screen, so he was always edging over to look. Can I please see the screen, please?

Zoe & Anthony, thank you for letting us document your beautiful day. Luke and I truly felt welcomed by you & your warm-hearted family & friends. Enjoy these first days of your new life together!

2009 was hands-down my happiest year ever. Two reasons:

1) Married the love of my life (The wedding was just the beginning!)

2) Found work I adore.

It’s funny. We also moved to California this year, and it’s just as epic as it’s supposed to be, but it’s not what made this year so amazing. The weather is beautiful. The Pacific ocean will steal your breath and weaken your knees. The farmer’s markets are dreamy. There are sea lions and sea otters, which is flat-out cool. But Luke and I often laugh that our daily delight has little to do with living in Monterey, California. Instead, our happiness rests on loving the people we’re with and doing meaningful work. I’m glad I finally started figuring that out. I hope 2010 is a year that we give more freely and love more deeply than we feel comfortable with.